1. Give some 'WE' time:
Even though you are really busy with your work life as well as household chores never fail to share common time at least once a week. This time is meant for both of you alone. So switch off your mobile phones. Just talk, talk and talk. During the progression of a relationship, the communication gap becomes a villain. Every broken relationship is due to a misunderstanding caused due to a communication gap. People fail to communicate with each other during their busy schedules. At the start of any relation, we find couples spending hours talking to each other. This is how the feeling of closeness is raised. This is how they understood their similarities. During the progress, they hardly spend any quality time. Social media, though it has many pros have taken up our time.
2. 'ME' time- Spend individual time:
By 'Me' time I meant spending time for yourself. People like to be themselves even after they are in a relationship. So let them be. When you hold a person and try to pump love on him, he feels disgusted. Let them spend their time with friends, have fun in their own way. This can make your partner happy and respect you which in turn, yields a happy relationship. Never make your partner feel missing their bachelor life. The feeling that you have lost something due to a relationship is quite depressing.
3. Don't try to change a person:
When you are in a relationship, you are with them since you once loved them. Accept the good and bad in them. Don't try to change his or her basic character. Many couples try to change their partner according to what they want. People do change in the long run. We all need to grow. A true-life partner should point out your bad qualities and help you grow into a better person. However, there are certain core basic characteristics, that define a person. Never ever think of touching those. This can lead to relationship insecurity.
4. Stop complaining to your loved ones:
When someone keeps on complaining to you all the time, how do you feel? Pathetic right. If you keep on complaining about your partner he or she will develop hatred towards you. Everybody likes to hear good from others. Over time, you feel very free with your partner. Think about your good old days, Even if you want to complain about something you do this in a very soft manner flattering about his qualities and not emphasizing much on the negative feedback that you want to let him know. This makes him feel wanted. Shouting at him and comparing with others can raise his ego. Women are basically emotional creatures. Control your emotions. This can create huge impacts.
5. Appreciate your partner:
Right from childhood, we humans crave appreciation. A feeling that your partner is proud of you increases your confidence and makes your bond stronger. Both men and women should keep on appreciating each other during a relation. Only if you give, you cherish. In a worthy relation, both partners complement each other. Complement them on simple things. The way they dress up, the way they accomplish a task, etc. The fact that your partner is noticing even the smaller changes in you, and loving it creates faith in life.
6. Be open to your partner:
Tell your partner about your needs, What you expect from them. Don't expect them to read your mind and act accordingly. One will indeed be filled with utmost joy if partner serves without even telling him. The fact that one should understand is this is an ideal case and don't always expect it to happen. There is nothing wrong with talking to your partner about what you really expect in the relationship. This doesn't mean that you have to nag him throughout the day asking him to look after you. Just talk to him when he is free about your feelings. If your partner values you, he will definitely take it into consideration.
7.Don't take it for granted:
Don't hesitate to greet thank you, apologize and say I love you to your partner. This can take your relationship to another level. Appreciate and acknowledge what you love about your partner. Let them know that you value their presence in your ups and downs. Enjoy your time together. Be playful, and nurture the youth in your relation. Pay full attention when they talk with eye to eye contact. Writing thank-you notes for him. Planning surprise dinner nights etc boosts your relation.
8.Don't rely on social media status:
On social media platforms, people always try to portray a fairy tale life. It may not be the real them. Don't take it into your heart and think your life is not that good. Studies say that people who are very much obsessed with social media go through a depression rather than others. Happiness is a choice. Be happy with what you have.
9.Go out with your partner:
Tripping out with your partner will help to bring your love back. It reminds you of the old moments that you have spent together. Even if you have kids, don't forget to spend the couple alone time. It is not a crime to leave behind your kids for a while.
10. Never compromise on your dreams:
Many people try to change according to their partner. Natural changes that occur are common but acting like a different person to get appreciation cannot be advised. You can't live like a different person throughout your life. If you stop being yourself and stop chasing your dreams, you will definitely start hating yourself after a while, which in turn end up with relationship issues.
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